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    February 22

    在摸索中不断前行

    当事情真真实实发生的时候,才最需要真正去想。而之前所有假想带来的郁闷,纠结,难过全是自虐。
    生活永远比戏剧更跌宕起伏,事实永远比大脑编制出来的假象更丰富更加具有想象力。
    也许真正爱上了某一个人,再有自信的人也会惴惴不安,像挑剔的艺术大师对自己求全责备。
    过去是不重要。可是爱情本身具备的无与伦比的自私和强大占有欲,提醒着自己,过去是不重要,重要的是曾经有一个女人占据了你生活中甚至心中那么重要的位置,
    而那么重要的人生阶段,我却无奈的缺席了。
    跟每个人相处都不同,因为这时候的自己和那时候的自己早已经完全不同。新的感情,带来了新的局面,新的刺激,新的悸动,新鲜的快乐,甚至感觉呼吸都是那么清新。
    可随之而来的新的烦恼,新的矛盾,新的问题,也接踵而至。
    距离完美主义者只有一步之遥的中庸卫道士,在任何关系中都在寻找平衡。平衡啊平衡,那个小点虽然在外人看来微不足道,可对于自我,却起着中心发动机的举足作用。
    牵一发而动全身。那是小宇宙的光和热的源泉。
    所幸我从未停止前行,即使累了,倦了,失态了,拧把了。
    因为对生活无法停止的热忱和对爱情至死不渝的忠贞就是无穷的动力。
    你应该这么想。所有的问题都不是问题——只是需要你换一个角度。即便真的是问题,那我想问,有什么问题是解决不了的?
    而对于占有欲等等,不如像某位女明星那样,张开双手,欢迎自己。
    我淘汰了所有的对手,我是最合适的那一个人。
     

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    Picture of Anonymous
    学生 wrote:
    “生活永远比戏剧更跌宕起伏,事实永远比大脑编制出来的假象更丰富更加具有想象力,楼主的文字很真实”,平静中带着一种深刻。
    很有幸,我有着那么一个女人,她曾经给我带来过无穷的自信和动力,却在之后又带来绝望的悲痛,在崩溃式的打击之后,体会到了前所未有的爱的深刻,在无数的自虐和“自慰”之后,于平静中懂得了真爱,虽然那伤痕依旧时时的有些隐痛,但那双颊的泪痕不再是因痛,而常常是为眼前各式的爱所感动......
    如楼主所说,真正爱上了某一个人,再有自信的人也会惴惴不安,就因他爱的真,依旧可以走在阳光下的栈道上,也许却如楼主所说:因为对生活无法停止的热忱和对爱情至死不渝的忠贞
    楼主的缺席是否是方向太过明确,以致于不愿“误入歧途”的太深,怕耽搁了行程,早早的掉头,继续前进......
    Apr. 6

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